The love of money and other material things have literally made it almost impossible to spot a good lady in the 21st century.
90% of them have adopted many disgusting attitudes that they tend to cover-up with their sex skills and cooking prowess. Some of them even put their bad traits on display with the policy that guys are meant to accept them with these disgusting faults.
However, despite the surge of these bad eggs, there are still some excellently good ladies out there that are more than ready to build an empire with their man through the thick and thin of life. These ladies can easily be identified by some quality traits that distinguish them from others. These traits include:
1. A Family-oriented Mentality: This is the most important feature a guy should look for in any lady. All guys need a lady that looks forward to creating a home together. Managing a family is one of the most difficult tasks on earth, and it will be extremely more difficult if the man is the only family oriented person in the home.
2. A Supportive Mentality: Despite the distance humanity has covered since the biblical beginning of the world, the role of a true help-meet has never diminished in a home. Nigeria is one of the most difficult places to live on earth, and the situation on ground has made it very crucial for all guys to find a shoulder to cry on. Not many ladies are really supportive these days. when you find one, hold on to her with your while heart.
3. An Understanding woman: In a world where ladies simply want what they want, it is very difficult to find a lady out there that really understand the times and tides. A lady that is ready to drink garri with you today due to your current financial incapacity, irrespective of the buoyant lifestyle you used to live in times past.
4. Consistency in Character: The character of most ladies tend to be easily swayed by the things around them. This change in character usually change their attitude towards everything once in a while. You need to be on the look out for ladies that are not easily by difficulties if our day to day lives.
5. A lady that share the same values with you: Though we are usually advised to date someone that has something we don’t have, all guys need to be on the look-out for a lady that shares his dreams and ambitions. It will be most unreasonable for any guy that interested in settling down to build a relationship with a lady that lives only for today.
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